Saturday, August 26, 2006
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It's very sad, i mean very very sad, to know that people around you just wanna throw you out of their life..I'm not trying to be emotional here but the fact is, we do feel that sometimes people just doesn't wanna to talk to you, to mingle with you, pretending you are invinsible..It's a sad sad situation..Let's take a case study..
I observed a neighbour of mine recently...
They have parents, constantly fighting verbally, World War 3, some might say.. Day and night... (What is this World turning into...)
They have sons and daughters...Their daughters live with their grandma as they are unable to cope with the War at home..
They have sons who are constantly rude to each other...the youngest always fights back to what the eldest have to say...
You probably wonder why I know so much of this neighbour of mine? Well, we used to be very close..until the father got retrenched and their sons got worse, in terms of attitude and education...
I'm just curious....
Sometimes I feel for the eldest...He has to find a full-time job as he's just completed his NS. He has to take care of the family...He has to ensure that things will go on as normal...He has to ensure that his siblings are not off-track, religiously and education...Sometimes, i feel that people around him, at times his OWN friends, neglect him at work or even at school or when his out with his friends...sad isn't it?
Now i understand why some of us felt that life is meaningless...But they are wrong..God has his reasons...And we can't lose our self-confidence and faith towards God....
No matter how much your wife/husband scold at you, with or without vulgarities, you have to be patient....If you can't take it, just go into the toilet and cry to your hearts content...
If you feel that you younger siblings are very rude at you, just be patient....It is useless to go into a war with your siblings..They are your very own flesh and blood...
Yes, it's sad to know that this used-to-be-happy family is facing such calamity..
If I'm not wrong, the father works from 9am to 12midnite at Pasir Panjang while they live in Tampines....The younger son comes back home late most of the time...
Sometimes the eldest son, Enrique, told me that he felt that even his close friends are ingoring him..Due to this depression situation he is in, he tends to be more moody when he goes to work...However, he will laugh with his friends, mingle with them, play soccer together, smile all the time...Enrique is a very kind and pleasant chap..
Little did one know that he has been crying and tearing whenever he's alone...in a bus stop or in the train to work....People might say he's a gay who doesn't know how to control his emotions but think of his situation..Yes, there might be people out there who are in more difficult situations than him...But,
what can we do to help these brothers and sisters of ours? Regardless of race, language or religion...
I can only pray and hope one day that matters are resovled before it's too late..
Me: Well, I've just had my Police interview yesterday...It was an eye-opener..We had to do several tests..I must say it's not easy to be a Police officer.. :)
Work at IRAS has been ok...With the company I have, I feel comfortable working but there's this tweety bird which I hope I could chase it away to make my workplace more condusive. :)
Life's to short to suffer, enjoy life to the fullest...
by HanHan at 8/26/2006 12:56:00 AM |
